Ok I'll add one more at least

This game is a very high learning curve game. A simulation even. No matter what HTC were to do, the only thing that makes you better at this game is playing it. They could write an true AI to have classes every minute of every day for new folks and it would still take a great deal of time for them to come close to even being able to *pick* a good stick. The very nature of this MMO is that reward comes from practice. The reason why many people respect each other and give <S>'s and wtgs is because they've been down the road of where you are right now, put on their game face, took their losses and learned. That is all you can do. You are going to die a lot. When you get your kills it's not going to necessarily be in a way that is going to get you props(pun intended). First, you are going to get "WTGs" from your countrymen(or squad if you join one) when you land kills and they actually realize you are on their team, especially when they know you aren't a shades account and are new. Just realize if you shoot down someone, chances are you caught them offguard while they were already engaged and they didn't notice you. It's happened to them so many times that A) they get mad about it(really beating a dead horse tho) or B) Are beyond getting mad anymore, shrug it off and reup. In either case, it really doesn't earn you recognition from the person you killed.
Once you start learning how to find 1 on 1's, and you do have to learn how to, engage and have a nice, long fight with someone you will start getting the recognition you are looking for from them(well from people who aren't stuck at A). You may even get a <S> even if you have advantage, they notice you, and you still knock them down with gunnery skills. A good sport respects that usually.
It's the people who strap in for the long run who get the most respect in most cases. They've taken their losses, and losses, and losses, like champs(sometimes

) and have progressed, in knowledge and ability, past them.
The best way to learn how to play this game is by dying and investing time into understanding why you died. Watching films people have put up and the ones you have recorded yourself and recognizing the reason why you died is paramount. Reading sites like Soda's is another must. Many people are so engrossed in this game that they've read books like Shaw's fighter combat book(thanks again to OddCAF for sending me his, I love ya man and you are the

!). There are just so many aspects to actually being "good" at this game that by it's nature it is not noobie friendly. It is a WWII airplane simulation game, and it comes with a lot of bells and whistles that need mastered. The most important things seem like they aren't, things like knowing where the fight between two airbases is happening. Situational Awareness is the most important factor in this game, and there can be no tutorial written that will teach you it. It doesn't just involve knowing what is happening around you at the moment, but figuring out what might be happening 1,2,5 or even 10 minutes later.
Anyways, I hope you stick with it. Just realize that this game demands your time if you want recognition. It's unlike most any other MMO in the fact it really does take skill and some sort of brain to be good at. Keep with it, take your knocks, and rise above the general population's skill and you will find yourself getting more and more <S>'s from opponents, and the best part is going to be that you earned them.
PS: Sorry for the disjointed and rambling post, 4am here
