This may have been brought up in a previous post, but it needs reinforcing.
STOP all the join requests without asking the person beforehand that you want to join.  Nothing I hate worse than when I am in a furball and I get shot down because a join request is covering the screen.  

  It has been happening 4-5 times a night and is getting very frustrating.  Please be a little more curteous and ask over the range or country channel.  If you don't hear from me, it is not that I am ignoring you.  I may be in a fight or soemthing else.  Thank you for reading this rant. 
