I think it's all just a matter of opinion, and what each person feels is important to themselves. Would I like to see everyone 'fly for the fight?' HELL YES I would, but it's not up to me. People pay their own money to be able to enjoy this game, and enjoy it in whatever way they see fit. It may not be what's right to some, or even me, but that's not up to us to decide/judge on.
I started out the same way-flying with the group, getting alt, and flying late war uber planes. I enjoyed it, for a while. Eventually it got stale and boring for me, just continuously outnumbering the opponents, and having just about every advantage. I also remember that I would run when I got outnumbered.
I flew for score early on, seeing how high of a K/D ratio, among other things, that I could get. While I flew 'smarter,' I could definitely tell that I wasn't enjoying myself at all. I was too focused on scores, and not enough about having fun, and I wasn't getting any better.
I always wanted to an 'ace' so to speak. Even before signing up to the game, I browsed the forums. I read over the various descriptions of the planes that HT has up on the site, and I would imagine myself going along at 10k all by myself. I would imagine seeing a lonely con off in the distance, and turning towards him. I would also imagine a drawn out, swirling dogfight, in which I eventually won. I guess remembering that is what really turned me towards improving my game and becoming that 'ace.'
I decided to totally forget score. I flew for the fun of things, and to constantly improve myself to the point where I could win a majority of all my dogfights, and become that ace who roams the sky by himself looking for his next victim (and I'll let you guys know when I get to that status
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I threw myself into nonwinable situations. I tried new things and died. It bothered me, yeah, because I had always had the mentality of coming out of things alive, becuase that's how it was like IRL. But eventually I got over it.
I know fly for the fight. I would much rather prefer fighting 1v1 fights that I lose shortly after beginning (as long as I learn something) then go out with others and bag 15 and land it with little risk to myself.
I think we all eventually get to that point where we realize it; that a great 1v1 that is evenly matched, which leaves your heart pounding profusely, about to rip out of your chest, which leaves your hands sweating from being so nervous and in to it, and your whole arm shaking after it's finished is much more important no matter what the outcome, win or lose. I think it just takes some people longer to get to that mentality.
donkey