Your asking for AI to take over control of your plane so that when you disco you can get BACK into it after you reconnect?
ROFLMAO
First off, fix your isp/disco problem. Don't ask for impossible fixes to what is really your problem.
Second, anytime you connect to AH you have to start from scractch. Trying to reconnect to a plane thats been stooging around while your disco'd is a networking nightmare. REALLY!
It Ain't Going To Happen In This Life.
A disconnect is a disconnect, you disconnected from the AH server, you are GONE, lost in space. There is nothing they can do to fix that. Once you disco, your plane explodes. (trust me you do NOT want unmanned planes stoging around all over) This is all as it should be.
Beyond that, even if they COULD do it, (which they can't) it wouldn't be allowed in FSO.
1 life event, you disco after the cutoff and your done, period.
Get a better ISP or fix the problem you have.