To mute or not to mute
I think the whole "mean mod" tag thrown around comes from folks who have never had to moderate anything and don't fully understand whats encompassed within it. There are a ton of variables to take into consideration that most don't even consider. I know, I've moderated in servers from 30-40 to hundreds and hundreds. I think if you don't know why you were muted (sans the filter quirks), you need to ask yourself a couple questions;
Am I arguing with , or bantering a mod in public?
Its very distracting & disruptive to game play. You have to remember that every one here is paying to have their own kind of fun, so HTC needs to ensure that all can play without the undue distractions of this. You may have been wronged and have a justifiable case, who knows. But thats for HT to decide via contact with them privately with screenshots, films, whatever. Not argued about publicly, or bantering a mod repeatedly.
Could what I have said possibly insulted or offended someone?
Many people say things that are insulting in jest..and don't even realize it at all. The best thing to do is all together avoid anything that is racial, political, gender biased,or profane in any game. Really what purpose do they serve? Even in a combative simulation or FPS. Whats acceptable to some ,even a mod, may not be acceptable to many. Many times a mod even has to make a decision on something said that insulting to some that even they themselves do not find insulting. Its their job to enforce the game's respective policy...nothing more , nothing less.
All in all I think most if not all are here to have fun. If your detracting from that in any way by your actions or text, then you really need to change the way you interact within this very large and very diverse community. The hundreds of different icons you see in the arena are all attached to individuals who may not see things the same as you. A little tolerance, respect, and self control is all it takes to avoid any of that.
Just thought I'd throw in here , as I've been on the other side of the coin many times over the years.
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