Well forgive me for wanting my children to live. I wanted that child, and she had NO right to deny me a child that I helped to create. I would have been more than happy to raise it on my own, but I was denied that oppertunity. What's right about that?
You say it happened to you but at the same time you don't really seem to give a crap. Obviously you didn't want that child yourself.
I also stated that there ARE times when it might be needed such as a rape case. Granted it's not the fetus's fault that it happened but I'm also realistic enough to understand that in such a case a woman might not wish to have that reminder following her around the rest of her life and a woman should have the right to choose in a situation like that. So NO your not using my argument against me as far as my case goes. I was in a happy stable marriage up to that point. My ex made a decision for the both of us without consulting me first, denied me my third child, and violated my trust, and according to you, I should just suck it up and get over it because "without her body I'd have no children" is BS!!! Without my sperm she'd have no children so why shouldn't I have just as much say in the matter as she does?
You will NEVER convince me that what she did was alright, and I will never forgive her for what she did. She had MY child murdered for her own convienance, and because of the screwed up laws and attitudes in this country I'm supposed to just live with it. Sorry but that's just screwed up beyond anything I've ever heard of.