I think the bottom line is if you dont have the patience, skill, and the right bomber killer, then your probably better off not coming into bomber formations with a poor attack solution. Just the other day I had a guy in a 110 come right into the "6" of my Lancs and just hang there at 1,000k shooting it out with me. Obviously he was going to lose, even against rather poorly defended Lancs. Had he taken the time to setup a good attack angle he probably would have aced at least 1 or 2 Lancs, and maybe all of them.
A 190 A-8 coming in at warp factor 9, when he has about 5,000' on you, is a very difficult target to hit hard enough to put down. The better bomber killers are very heavily armed, but make no mistake, a fighter armed with 6 0.50s is perfectly capable of aceing any bomber formation in the game.
I only upp bombers a few times a month nowdays. But back when I was flying them a lot I considered the 30 eny KI-67s the most dangerous bomber in the game attack-wise. Not just cause they are heavily armed, even tho they are, but the thing is they are so fast they force the impatient to either adopt a poor attack profile, or, just plain not bother attacking.
Thats what the great bomber hunters all have, "patience". And that was the first thing I would notice when they were setting up on me. If I saw they were patient I figured I have a pretty hard time ahead.
So dont blame the game for your own impatience. In real life it took a lot of guts for fighter pilots to come into all the heavy machine guns of bomber formations. And a lot came in but never came out, and if you had bad luck or made a poor decision it was a long, long way down. There was nothing left of these guys to even bury.
Aces High has done a great job recreating the bomber war. I dont think anything should be changed, other then this Lame Stuka act.