I find it amusing that no one has noticed the OP has a desire to modify the behavior of others solely to enable him to accomplish the behavior he wishes to modify.
He desires to remove the motivation for some folks to actually land kills in order to enable him to land his kills.
He plainly states he doesn't want to be stranded while they go land, implying he lacks the judgment and/or situational awareness required to recognize a shift in the tactical situation necessitating a prudent withdrawal prior to possible re-engagement.
I would suggest a refresher course in the concept of numerical superiority.
Actually, thats not what I ment at all, and since i dont have anything fancy like a track IR or anything like that, i still DO notice that they are about to swarm me. But i dont run away, i accept that swarm and kill as many as i can
And if you did not like my example, lets try another one, lets say you are in a flight of bombers, flying into the fray to bomb a strategic target. You notice SEVERAL enemy cons, about the same altitude as you are. But you have friendlys up high. They mannage to pick a couple of them, and then run away, leaving the rest to you, whilst you are JUST about to bomb, and right when you are about to drop, your main bomber loses a wing and you are thrown off course.