SO...
Save your anger, quench the frustration. It isn't the BIshes' (Or rooks or knights') fault, and they're not dimwitted. They just don't play for the same thing you do. Live and let live, etc.
I'm not angry nor am I frustrated nor do I call people names or make too quick of a judgment (And that is hard), well mostly I don't

Besides this thread is really about courtesy to your countrymen, gaining an understand, and about something else. The something else will remain with me and my squaddies. Personally whatever it is that makes you enjoy the game is fine by me. I've done it all, Milkrun, HO, pick, furball, bomb, gv and capture bases. And like 1pluss says it will probably all circle back for any given individual.
Just for the record: I can pick with the best of them

Once ran my K/D up to 35 to 1 and finished #1 in that category. You know not one person said to me WTG Getback. Here I was fighting two spits and you picked me so cleanly in my Ju87. Just Awesome! Of course being the humble guy I am I didn't say "Owned"

Now on the other hand, If I help take a base or lead a mission there is much appreciation and great appreciation from me for the leaders or for those who joined the mission. Well except for that shut up and sing part. Wait. No there was no sing part. I think it was just shut up.