IMNSVHO, you have several issues that no one "plane" is going to resolve. The first question is "can you fly?". If you don't understand what your planes controls do, and how to visualize what is going to happen in 3D, everything else is going to be harder, if not impossible.
I'd suggest some time in the venerable FM2. It is reasonably tough, and can stand up to just about anything, and more importantly can teach you how to control your plane and yourself. Some people are natural T&B pilots, while others instictively use and understand B&Z.
Learn the basics of flight, then some ACM, and then try a few fighters (and some bombing, etc.) to see what fits you. If I were a trainer, I'd train you in Spit 9, 38, and a couple 47s. Don't get wrapped up in cool, or what I and others think, to have fun just be comfortable.
Well, I'm Not as much as wrapped Up In what Is the "Cool" aircraft.
I Like The ones I suggested, and would Like To learn them. I Didn't Even realize the planes I mentioned were Considered Cool.
also There are other aircraft I do like, as I said, I just Think out of the ones I have listed I would Prefer Them over most.
Yes I seem To succeed In TnB Usually, and I Do Know How To get My Plane up and all the way to landing a few kills( Three at Most), But I rarely land Them Because I Get over my own Head Because I think I can Do more because I haven't finished all of my ammo. If your all Not understanding I Will Try to Explain.
I Can Get my aircraft in the air Sufficiently without Problems (Unless its a SBD on a turning carrier)
I Can Aim Well, But it takes several bursts To Get the Enemy shot down if even I stay on its Six.
I Can Somewhat now Dive Bomb, But nothing to rely on.
I know Two basic Maneuvers.
I know How To Use Torpedoes Efficiently, and To level bomb
I have very little problems gunning (Cv 8,5", Or gunner Positions i.e B17's. However field manned ack is a hassle for me)
I'm Steadily learning throttle Control as well as The times To deploy Flaps.
This is really Just something that I Hoped can Get Tips or more help on Skill Or tactics Or even wing up To see How its Done Well With No Competition (I may be wishing to much But... I DO Want to be unbeatable. If even Very Hard To Beat Or Even at least So I can Give a good show, If that is even achievable For me.) Because My Kill/death isn't very Good, and as I stated I'm A rookie That just wants to get better ( So I can survive a lot more Than I try To already).
(P.S. I Do like the Fm2, very reliable little plane)