What is the line between what is a pick and what is not? (since we are answering questions)
If the target goes evasive (in any form whatsoever) is it still a pick (since he is aware of your presence) ?
If the target is getting "check 6's" from countrymen or squadmates, but ignoring them, is it still a pick?
I would think that the very moment that a target realizes that he has been chosen (as a target) whether by warning from a countryman, a squadmate, your tracers, or the little hairs on the back of his neck standing up, it can no longer by the very definition of the term, be a pick.
I would wager that 90% of the guys that complain about being picked, know they are being shadowed and don't care, or think they can get away with staying engaged.
I have seen, on multiple occasions, where there is some guy getting ganged by 3-4 friendlies, while at the same time, another red guy is coming to help his buddy. You can warn the pack of wolves 100 times and it won't matter.
e.g. "Hey, all 5 of you on that Zeke, you have a Pony coming down" meanwhile, all 5 guys on the Zeke have their faces plastered to the windshield and ignore the warnings thinking they will be the one to score the lethal hit.
But... here comes Mr. Pony, and in one pass, wastes 2 of the bandits on his Zeke buddy. Oh the whines you will hear about how they "were picked"
So.. who is the worse offender in that situation? The guy picking, or the ones getting picked because of their ignorance?
I guess what I'm saying is that it is all relative.
I do not fly anything besides German Iron (or very rarely, a Macchi) in the MA, you will not see me in too many turn fights. Sure I could up a 109 F or G, but the fact is, in the MA I will probably get picked, depending on the situation.
Again, relativity........
If you are in a 1v1, maybe it's different, but in a furball type situation, you should be looking over your shoulder every 3-5 seconds, plain and simple.
There are other enemy planes around and they could possibly shoot at you, just like the coffee at McDonalds is HOT and could BURN you.
I always fly in the MA with the possibility of my being picked in the back of my head.
People should always realize that it is a possibility and be prepared for it. If it means disengaging from your kill and not bagging it....
BOO HOO. Look around once in a while and don't be so greedy. If you enter an engagement expecting to be picked (if you find it happening to you a lot, you should start expecting it), it might not happen as often.