Things that strike me about the HO comments and the Pick comments are ill recieved they are.
If you HO someone...and they call you a HO'er.....what else would you be?
Same with Picking....if you pick some one, and they say "nice pick"....well you did pick them.
Most comments are from frustration from the victim...It's a total buzz kill when you're having a good fight...but it is the MA. On the other side, if people are going to get bent out of shape about being being called by what they just did, then mabye they shouldn't do it. If you HO someone, or pick someone, and they say "nice HO/pick" and you did, say thanks and move on. If someone says that is all "you" do, then that is just their experience. If you take offense, don't blame the people who are getting picked and HO'd. In terms of "who is better," there is nothing to be determined, if that is what some worry about. There is no real need to go on about trying to justify these actions, they are what they are. They may be performed for any number of reasons, but at the end of the day, a pick is a pick. Neither takes a whole lot of skill, but HO's have there time and place, and picking is probably the most common acitivity in the MA.