Oy.
The F4F has earned a seriously bad rap it does NOT deserve entirely because she's not conisdered in the proper context. Please keep in mind that the F4F was predominantly flying against one of the most agile aircraft of the war. Had the F4F been measured up against the 109 instead we'd probably have a much, MUCH different picture today. In fact from the handful of encounters between the Wildcat and German iron (Operation Torch, FAA Martlets in the channel and North Sea, etc) I've been able to find, the Germans had a pretty good opinion of the F4F (one pilot in particular was completely stunned by the Wildcat'ss diving ability).
Also remember that even the Spitfire ran into SERIOUS problems trying to turn against the A6M. Are you going to say our Spitfire's turning ability is overmodeled now, too?
So try turn-fighting a Zero in the F4F in-game and see where you get.