1. Turn off 200...
Roger that. The last time I had 200 up, all that was on it was whines, failed attempts at taunts and invitations to purse fights.
2. When a guy PM's you keep the conversation to 2 reply if any.....
PMs are even better

PM complaints are the pinnacle of whines. The last good one I got, some schmuck got himself shot in the face and PM'd me with a "HOtard"

. I sent: "Don't fly into my guns and you won't get shot". Kinda crazy when you think of it, put your plane directly into my gunsights and then complain when you find yourself in the tower.

The bottom line is HAVE FUN. Its a game. Games are supposed to be fun. But keep in mind that like any other game, someone has to win and someone has to lose. What makes the game fun is how the winner takes winning and how the loser takes losing.
If you win, don't gloat because you will surely one day end up squarely in someones' gunsight and nothing in this game is funnier than watching a hotshot end up in the tower, which will likely end in some tears being squirted.
And if you lose, learn from it. If you are having trouble, most people here are willing to help out any way they can.
