After an FSO we did last week I was fed up with this. We flew B-25's and Only 3 out of the 7-8 people showed up that me...a friend and another person. so as we took off we linked up to another squadron much larger ( Maybe 15-20) and Headed off to the target. Our escorts arrived and to my Surprise Only Escorted to the Larger squadron...Only Tuned to the larger squadron and only Payed attention to the larger squadron.
hehe ok, this one is no charge BarkO.
It's the fault of FSO that 3 of your 8 guys showed up? No, it's yours. Argue that all you want, if you run a squad, you take the fall. You throw your guys under the bus when it goes bad, you won't last long with any credibility as a squad leader. Were you flying With the larger squad? You expect to fly off on your own and get personal escorts? Had you been in tight formation with that larger squad, guess what, you would have been escorted

Coming from a tried and true Escort guy for so many years, when bombers fly off on their own, they are assigned BAIT status. So far, You've been in 7 squad so you must know how they work, yet you can't form one, no one listens to you, you don't get with the escorts on THEIR assigned channel and it's someone elses problem?
You didn't provide a full strength squad, that means You make the sacrifices and adjust to those who did.
Try this next time. Your guys don't show up as they committed to. You make the effort to get with someone else, and don't be surprised if they don't completely break down their plans and strategy to accommodate you. You already hosed the plans by not providing what you committed to, don't expect everyone to adjust to you now, as you cannot be counted on. Life is hard. They are not going to reconstruct their orders counting on you to do your part, you haven't proven that you can or will do your part.
That's FSO, get used to it, get over it, it's been said before that these events are not for everyone. 2 choices. Pay attention and learn from what I just told you, or don't. Neither one matters to me, but 1 will be beneficial to you. You entered this conversation confusing respect with attention, that is a bad idea. You didn't get attention in that FSO frame, you gave no reason to respect you. Consider. That actually applies to this whole concept of respect vs rank, by the way.
Escorts Payed no attention to the small squadron...This Is just downright Dis-Respectful and Wrong.
Maybe, just maybe, there is more to it than you thought. Personally, I've been escort on situations exactly as you explained. You are absolutely correct in the first part, I payed no attention to the small squadron. Size played no part, participation was 100%. Oh yes, they howled to the moon about being ignored, as they insisted we tune to them and bring them up to speed, they complained they couldn't keep up, they complained they didn't know where we were going, they they they....well..they died.