first off its just a game! dont let someone get the best of you in a game. you both will look like idoits. i been playing this game for a long time now, and i have been that person that has the ego problem, i have been the person that lets people get me all worked up, and at the end of it all it gets the best of me. mainly because it affects the way i fly, gv,or bomb (the way i play the game). its not worth the time and effort to play these peoples games. ignore them and move on. if they dont shut up SQUELCH them. SQUELCH is your best friend in the game. learn to use it.
as far as big squads go. HA's is a big squad and they are well respected. AoM is a fairly big squad and they are well respected. i have a mid size squad of maybe 30-40 players which all of maybe 6 log on at one time. for the most part we have 3-4 and we kick some arse with just 3-4. we will take bases and some we dont. we furball, gv what ever seems like fun at the time. size of the squad does not matter. its the people that make a squad look stupid