Frank, you're inaccurate in describing the Ju88 being limited to "shallow dives" -- in discussion regarding dive bombing capabilities many many references were brought up describing tactics used en masse in the battle of britain where Ju88s made high speed dives or attacked via dive bombing, and pulled out. It allowed them to evade attacking RAF planes better.
EDIT: The Ju88s are an early plane. The earlier models are not the most bug-free. Look at titanium-armored Lancs, B-26s that take multiple 30mms with no damage.
As for wing spars, well the entire system is only as strong as long as the entire system is intact. There is combat footage of 190s having their wings blown off. While the spar may be structuraly sound, it's not a solid chunk of metal. On top of that, as soon as a few dozen armor piercing bullets rip chunks out of the stress-bearing load, cracks, fissures, and splits will rip out from there.