Well, she's enrolled in college, apparently has searched for a job but not found one, and is a military wife. This is not the most... traditional? ... solution, but at least she's trying...
Being enrolled and attending are 2 different things. It sounds more like she sent in the forms, but can't afford to actually go to school. Although, the college should have a free daycare for the kids while she is there.
I'll take should have worn a condom for $1000 Alex.