last sunday i was listening to my local radio station preacher talking and my kids playing in living room listening to me play online, i shot down a player he tuned to me swearing his dumbarse off, my 5yr old daughter asks me daddy who was that? what he say? why? my boys-whoa dad! he said a bad word. geez i think hi-tech has to auto block cuss words, dam that was hardcore-i logged off immediately. next time i log on i will make sure i have my headset on. and for the puke who accused me of hitting my kids, i hope i don't run into you while i am hunting alaskan bears or whales 
THIS or one like it..

will solve all your problems with the family.
And make it easier to use vox too
At the request of my family
I got mine not because of the cussing. Here, as Lewis black once said. "The F word isnt a cuss. its a comma." and worse then that comes across on TV
But because they got tired of the house literally sounding like a machine gun blazing. Bomb exploding war zone.
We can argue verbal morals till we're blue in the face. And Im not condoning it But its not going to change the fact that someone is going to go off the deep end from time to time. And short of banning Vox outright. Thats not going to change no matter what rules are in place.
If your really that concerned about it. The best you can do is protect your family from the bad words by using a headset (Comes in handy when the wife talks to you too

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And do what you probobly should have done in the first place instead of posting about it here. If its that bad. report it to HTC