How so..... I see them trying to kill fights or the other sides ability to fight all together.
The premise is that fighters exist to control the sky over a tactical or strategic area. No air force in the world exists just to dog fight. Dog fighting is a means to an end. That end involves gorund attack, strategic bombing, interdiction, reconnaissance, etc.
In AH terms, how often does a busted base take become a good fur ball? Furball lake in the DA is what the game is when there are no objectives other than dog fighting.
With regards to the arm chair generals, they need to learn that there is no legitimate command authority in a game. Try persuasion instead of whining. A corollary is the amount of "alerts" in the text buffer that are either one plane or for a base that is already shut down. We could use less Chicken Littles.