Oceans.... Others have already posted the correct response, but you still don't seem to understand it....
So, I will try to explain it to you, politely....
You are correct, there are NO safe computers or software. If top secret government and banking computers can be hacked, I assure you HTC can be hacked as well. However, there is a proper way to address suspected hacking/cheating and it has been posted on these BBS numerous times. If you feel there is something afoul, film it, and quietly email the video to HTC. They will look into it and address it if it proves to be an error, a hack, or a cheat.
The ONE thing that is very clear, is getting on Country or 200 channel and accusing someone of cheating or openly pointing out a problem is NOT healthy for game play and Skuzzy takes a very hard line toward it. You weren't muted because you think someone cheated. You were likely muted because you 'had your discussion' on an open channel.
which brings me back to the original point.... film it and send it in. If there is a problem (intentional or not) I am very sure that it will be dealt with. Do things the right way and you won't get spanked.

Oh... and for the record.... I have no empirical data, but I would be willing to bet that the actual number of 'accused cheaters' who were actually hacking/cheating is likely to be less than 1/10 of 1%. Frankly, I see some things every now and again that get my blood pressure up; but, I also believe that there is a logical explanation for it that DOES NOT include cheating. Internet lag, bad connections, slow computers... whatever. I honestly don't believe that 'hacking' is really as much of an issue as some would have you believe.