I think you're partly right, but suspect I'm partly right in my impression of his attitude as well. I know he's trying to say "you guys shouldn't be whining and trying to tell others how to fly," and to an extent he's right... we all have better things to worry about really. But as a person who just 10 months ago was a totally green newb, I think I can say that any and all guidance from those who have been around a while is appreciated by those whom are new. The OP wasn't being an arse. Maybe only 5% of the "newbs" who read the "hint hint, here's a list of things to keep in mind if you want people not to despise your presence" list will take it to heart. But to me that's a 5% improvement over where we could have been. Even if he or you feel it's a lot of whining and we "look stupid" for trying to instill a little bit of good gamesmanship into whomever will listen, if it even gets one player to think twice about doing something crappy, I say it is worth it.
No one said we're better than anybody, but there is a better way to conduct oneself. I disagree that calling out a person will automatically cause that person to only behave worse, and a lot of other guys here disagree as well.... because in many cases it is why we are the way we are.
I by no means feel that way, you misunderstand me. All I'm saying is that people look stupid when they act as if they have the right to give orders, based soley on time spen in a video game. I mean come on, it IS a game. It doesn't even guarentee you would be a good pilot in real life.
As to you disagreeing with my 'quote' about the uncooperative newb,
It really applies only to newbs who ARE uncooperative. I remember this guy whos name was just a bunch of numbers, and all he did was whine, and complain when people politely asked him to stop HO'ing and kill stealing. And when some people TOLD him to stop on the grounds that they haplayed longer, and were therfore better, he just got pissed and wouldn't shut up.
Eagle, I don't know about others, but I don't really get my oppinion that more expirenced players look stupid when the ORDER others to fly like them from that post. I'm fine with asking, but giving orders based on the grounds that you spent more time online makes you look stupid.
Same with people who say "thanks for the check 6 guys" (incase you cant tell, they were sarcastic when talking). You are responsible for YOUR 6, not mine, just as I'm not responsible for yours.
It gets annoying when orders and complaints from unreasonable expectations start flying around on VOX and on country text.