if you need another plane in addition to yours to kill somebody than neither of you are worth playing with in my opinion.
Would you agree that "if you need another player in addition to yourself to score a touchdown than neither of you are worth playing with in my opinion."?
AH and football are both team games.
if i drag someone away and they follow me to get into a one on one fight, then it is clear TO ME that from that action of following me away from everyone that they dont want anyone to jump in either. if they did want someone to jump in, then they would not have followed me away from the group. u see the logic here?
Different issue, and your assumption is flawed in that it assumes the person following you had control over whether anyone else followed. Sure, hording and ridiculous or consistent ganging are bad, but they don't exist the moment any fight in the arena involves more than one plane. That's just silly.
I would agree that out of politeness one should refrain from jumping into an existing 1-1 (that isn't right on the edge of a furball) without asking the friendly whether he would prefer you stay out. However, you should keep in mind that you're in the MA, not the DA.
(Yeah, I know, the DA sucks. Sorry. Maybe we should have more threads telling people how they should play in the DA and fewer about trying to turn the MA into what the DA ought to be, since the former is nothing like it is supposed to be while the latter isn't so far off the mark.)