"i know the wing was redesigned how much the shape of the airfoil changed i am not positive but somehow they managed according to my source to strengthen and lighten the wing between the a-6 and a-7 and when the heavier engine was added i am pretty sure the rear fuselage was lengthened to re-establish the COG ..."
The airfoil did not change. The structure was lightened but I have no information that it would have got stronger, only lighter -maybe it was just a bit overdone in earlier variants? The rear fuselage length was not changed. It was lightly modified structurally e.g. the aux tank access hatch was put in and side access hatch was larger in A8.
When considering the wash-out keep in mind that while the inboard thickness was 15% of the chord the tip thickness was only 9% of the tip chord affecting the maximum allowable AoA quite much. While wash-out of 2 deg brings the AoA tolerance of the tip closer to that of the root they are not the same unless the closeness of fuselage and the greater dynamic pressure of the wing tip even things up.
"As an approximation, the stall speeds for the various weights among all the A models and the D model will be very similar, given the wing area, airfoil, and planform are identical."
I though that for basic lift equation you do not need to know airfoil properties or planform aspect ratios, just wing area, especially if you already have an approximation of the CL of the wing?
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