I suppose I count as an old time player as far as AH goes, although I haven't actually played AH (or any other flightsim) in quite a few years. I consider AH about the same as any of the other online flightsims--it has its plusses, and its drawbacks. I'd say it's my second favorite of the genre, and my favorite of the current offerings--though given the competition, that's not necessarily saying much.
I've never cared for the 'war' or most of what comes with it; I just want to fight.