I have played AH 10 years. What the hell is with people. Its game for @#^! sake. Let it go. You get another life. For a few years this game had some very class acts flying in here. I know some very good people that have been run out of this game by little peepee pilots that cant handle getting killed. There was a time when you could make a good shot and get a <S>. Now its trash talk on 200 or PM's calling you out to the DA or asking you to come back so they can find you.
I was gunning for squaddie and we were down to one plane. 109 came sliding in from lvl4 O'clock and I killed him with the waist gun. Instead of a "nice shot" or even just ignoring it, I get smack talk because " my buddie needed a gunner" and some other name calling.
People just need to suck it up. Its a game. You get another life. Learn from what you did and try to find another tactic. If getting shot down gets you that wound up that you need to name call or PM trash maybe you should go back to console gaming.
At least grow the hell up and stop PM'ing people because you got your ego rubbed in the dirt.