My Mom was best at teaching us these rules of behavior...
" If you don't have anything nice to say to your sister, then don't say it..... or I'll crack you a good one"
"Did you just hit your brother? How about I whack you with this rolled up magazine and see if you like it... does that sound fair?"
"We all take our fair portion of the steak, don't be a pig about it....or I will stick this fork in your elbow"
"I am the boss!! Go get the belt and I will teach you about being a nice person without that smart mouth of yours ...if I have to beat the living daylights out of you, you will learn!!"
"We will march right up to Jim's Grocery and tell him that you stole that pack of cherry koolaid. Don't tell me you didn't, or I'll crack you one!! That tongue of yours is so red, that I will have to make your donut bleed for 2 days to get that red... Gosh durn it ( different words I am sure you all know) I think I'll tell him to call the police to see if they need to arrest you..I won't have a thief living under my roof!!! " ( i was five i think ...lol )
I think it depends on how you were raised, be a good example to your children, and most people will be good.
Everyone makes mistakes, but it all depends if you live with a conscience and not live performing the science of the con.
NwBie