LEAVING

[VonMessa]

Just get a voice mod so instead of being an annoying squeeker, you are just annoying. 

Also, quit giving a <S> in one breath and, in the next,  send  PM folks insulting them because you were the next one that got their bellybutton handed to them.

[AApache]

 

someone typed squeeekkkkkeeerrrr   which YES  whole heartedly I agree ! Those squeekers grow up to become some of the best sticks in the game ...  sometime   . What hurts me is to think my 15 , 5 and 2 month old son's will all play this game .... hopefuly / but how will they be treated?????   800Nate yes in deed i know him and on many occasions I may have him on squelch but I all ways help him and all ways answer as many as it may seem  QUESTIONS .. ok to a certain point - but I definetly applaud and love his enthusiasm and effort as annoying at moments as it may seem    but these are the players that in few years will be top shelf !!  I remember a young player about 10 yars ago that played named jetb123  same scenario same bat channel and if anyone knows jetb123 he could pop half the AH comunity on a bad day ....

 If it is to much at the moment I just do a quick squelch but in every way having a 24/7 amped ridilin alert system ready to spring into action .... Priceless  

From the bottom of my heart ....  MY GRANDMOTHER JUST PASSSED AWAY VETERANS DAY FEW DAYS AGO !!   She was a Rosie the riveter working on a bomber assembly line in a New York Bomber factory during the war !!Thank goodness I was able to take  the kids and new baby to see her and we were by her bedside when she passed along with entire family . The point is that her passing put into perspect how insignificant and small our lives are in the grand scheme of schemes whatever it may be.Also just how quick we should prepare our life and life styles and how we treat eachother because we are not promised tomorow and we don't know when our last breathe may be. After seeing decades of knowledge and wisdom lost through deaths and passings  ... arguing and bickering just becomes what it really is a waste and a distraction !

 I know even this post will probably get a few cyber thugs and arm chair personel to chime in but as we all say .. :it's your 15 bucks "  
What I do know is from the bottom of my heart I have known you both ( BipoLar and AAjagerX )for almost 10 years within the AH community and you are 2 people that in no way do I want to see fighting and arguing. I see you both as brothers and I won't say much more on that now. I am hurting badly from my grandmother passing and I have to prepare for funeral tomorow as I am a pawl berror or how ever you spell that . I'm sorry guys I don't mean to break down and I am trying to maintain but Nate bless his heart as much as I may mute him he is a valuable tool and he will grow one day into a fine player  

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here is the point !!! ...i just know that at 93 years old i still didnt want her to die which tells me living for 100 years is still nothing so why argue   !!!!

[tassos]

Hey Leaving without Ackwife Problems dont count..so stay whiner

[W7LPNRICK]

You know guys, we were all young, awkward, talked nervously, embarrassed easily, unsure of ourselves, etc.. No one could do anything to help us through this except to let us learn through it ourselves. One thing we can all agree with, is that when teased during these uncomfortable moments, all it produced was anger, and resentment...both great self esteem builders. So why would you want a kid to have these feelings? Some of life's most difficult lessons are best learned on your own. Nate will think about all this and perhaps come back a better, more socially comfortable player.  

[Belial]

800nate we have played together quite a few times and I am fairly sure you will be back so with that said...

You can come fly and gv with me.


But you HAVE to listen to what EVERYone is saying to you "talk less, let actions earn you respect"

I know you enjoy using your mic but...seriously it would be better if you just unplugged it and typed to us if you had a thought.

I could use my own advise sometimes about not talking but thats usually when i'm drunk

[bustr]

Association is an imperfict two way street.

If nate is reasonably smart the feedback to his post should give him a window to ponder the possibilty his pain and pleasure is more the direct results of his actions towards others than thier reactions back.

I don't know how old nate really is. His opening statement shows real frustartation and hurt on his part. The responders who seem to know him describe a boy who is very excited to play a game in the company of adults but does not understand the unspoken rules of conduct between adults to ensure a postive outcome to recreational group activities.

As expected for his age and physical brain development, he is excited to be with all of us which is the source of his currently low threashold of ability to control his impulses. When he gets happy, excited, scared or angry he quickly looses control of his critical factor which roughly equates to that part of your brain as adults that helps you to self moderate.

Nate,

You may not realise the goldmine you have here. Yes, being in the company of these adults will cost you many of your pranks, telling everyone how much you like being with them all the time and not worring about anything you choose to do or say.

But, if they really didn't care about the possiblity you can learn from their responses. This post would have died without a single word from anyone. Creating this post means you don't want to leave the game. Please think about the feelings of others as you read their replys.

It seems as unhappy and hurt your are, you may have accidentaly made them feel the same way over time.

--------------------------------------------On a Side Note----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Ya know the only benifit from being older than dirt is I can talk all this that "Touchy Feely Crap for you Fellers" sheesh can't you boys play nice together. Dern when I was younger than pond scum we smacked each other with tree branches and had foofhing contests instead of all this dern GurgelSnortin Frog thumpin femal mewlin nonsense.......

[AAJagerX]

Bip, after calming down a bit I feel the need to apologise.  I truly felt bad for Nate, but there's no excuse for lashing out in the manner that I did.  I had a rough time as a kid, (was smallish until 15 or so) so my personal experiences amplified my disgust at the manner in which he's been treated.  I understand that you were just laughing at the situation and not at Nate himself. 

[Tupac]

Nate has the biggest potty mouth ingame. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

[ROX]

With all do respect for the guys doing all those missions over the weekend, nate's almost incessant yapping (read that squeeking) made it very difficult at times to hear the mission leader's instructions as well as the necessary "reports" that the mission leader needed to stay on top of the situation as well as keep the progress rolling.

My hat's off to 96Delta for his cool, experienced way in not only doing that but doing that through nate's incessant yapping. 

People were begging nate to use text (I heard people PLEAD for him to do that for almost 3 hours), but to no avail.  Yes, he's correct that many players told him to (usually please) shut up so that they could hear valuable info on the missions.  You'd have thought he would have taken the hint...they have only been telling him that for months.

I hate to see the kid leave but if my parents had brought him up--his most often flights would be to the woodshed.


ROX

[MK-84]

     If I quit everytime I got pissed off, I'd be nowhere in life.
     I would suggest reading the posts here because it appears to show why people are not making you feel welcome.  Then I'd log right in and shoot someone down, the games worth it

[TinmanX]

Dear Nate,
I would like to confirm that yes, you do get picked. Try checking your 6.

Sincerely
Cheech

[Void]

Don't let these old men pick on you.



- Nagato -

[greens]

too late profile gone

Hallejujah!! amen!! notice the two thmbs up 

[ap1102]

AApache is one of the classiest guys in game or on the forums. Big Salute Bro. Im so sorry about your loss man. Been there myself a time or too. It'll take time but keep remembering the good times especially with the holidays coming up. You probably have nuff on your plate taking care of the new addition to the house.


EZRhino

[Motherland]

This is the internet. We don't see each other face to face. There's no influence of sex, age, race or experience beyond what you betray.

There's much looser social rules on the internet due to the anonymity inherent in it. If someone doesn't like you, chances are a lot greater that they'll tell you, as there will most likely be no physical repercussion, but on top of that there will very likely be no social repercussion. Good or bad (I tend to think it leads toward good), that's how it is, and it's not going to change.

Thus, if you want to be treated like a big boy, you have to act like a big boy, and if you get run out of town because you act like a sweetie , you're going to have to deal with it; that's how it works.

You can be 12 years old on the internet, and on online video games; I've done it. You can't be an immature brat online, though, and expect to be 'accepted'- no matter how old you are; and I don't feel sorry about that, not in the least, nor should anyone else.