Why should we have a meaningful discussion of something that has already been discussed over and over. Unless there is a new twist, the OP its just hoping that somehow them saying it will make all the difference. I don't really care, post what you want, but are we suppose to just ignore these threads until someone posts a "why is no one helping the new guys" thread.
I agree that sometimes things go overboard, I'm sure I've pushed the limit before. Although this should be a helpful place, this isn't the land of fluffy bunnies and friendly sheep. I think it's okay to respond with a simple, use the search, this has been discussed before. If a guy can't handle what is mostly light hearted poking, they won't stay in the game long anyway.