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Offline MarineUS

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Thoughts and prayers
« on: January 29, 2011, 02:28:00 AM »
My girlfriend and I recently found out she was two months pregnant which was ok but on the 25th she passed out in our living room and once more when I was trying to sit her up. I picked her up and carried her to the car and drove her to the nearest hospital where we were seen immediately but had to wait six hours to have an ultra sound done.....I got to see our baby and hear it's heartbeat....but we found out she had an eptomic pregnancy which is where the baby is growing outside of the uterus.

Well once they found that out they realized she was bleeding internally (she passed out twice at the hospital) and she had to be transferred by ambulance to have emergency surgery around 3:30am. They had to terminate the pregnancy and take out one of her tubes because it had ruptured.

It's been very stressful sitting up here at the hospital (I'm on my itouch). We're both ready to go home. We're physically and emotionally drained. I haven't slept since 5pm on the 25th and she's been having trouble sleeping.

We didn't even get to really know the little guy...I made sure that right before she went into surgery to kiss her stomach and say "daddy loves you, I'm so sorry."

If you don't see me on for a few days or are wondering where I've been, now you know. It will probably be another day or two before I'm back on. Just keep her in your thoughts and in your prayers.

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Offline Karnak

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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #1 on: January 29, 2011, 03:11:38 AM »
I am sorry to hear that.  Best wishes for your lady and yourself.
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #2 on: January 29, 2011, 03:15:13 AM »
Im sorry to hear that man, stay strong  :pray
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #3 on: January 29, 2011, 04:17:35 AM »
Best of wishes, I have a clue of what you're going through right now from personal experience.
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #4 on: January 29, 2011, 07:07:14 AM »
Very sad to hear this. :pray

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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #5 on: January 29, 2011, 07:16:42 AM »
:pray  i feel for ya man my now ex had a miscarraige its not always easy to deal with on both sides if u need anything lemme know man sometimes its good to have people to talk to.
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #6 on: January 29, 2011, 07:20:10 AM »
I'm so sorry man, defiantly in my prayers.  :pray
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #7 on: January 29, 2011, 07:32:00 AM »
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #8 on: January 29, 2011, 08:19:43 AM »
Lot of tragedy in this world these days, and its us who cop it.

Im so sorry man, I really am  :pray
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Offline Dichotomy

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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #9 on: January 29, 2011, 08:23:33 AM »
My thoughts are with yall and I'm truly sorry  :pray
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #10 on: January 29, 2011, 08:38:24 AM »
 :pray

I sent you a PM, I hope that can help.


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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #11 on: January 29, 2011, 09:21:52 AM »
 :pray
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #12 on: January 29, 2011, 09:33:48 AM »
i am so sorry   :pray
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #13 on: January 29, 2011, 09:47:49 AM »
Our prayers and thoughts are with you both. Sad when life throws us such painful experiences.
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Re: Thoughts and prayers
« Reply #14 on: January 29, 2011, 10:02:33 AM »
That breaks my heart to heard that, MarineUS.  my prayer to you, girlfriend and the little one.   :pray
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