if you got killed its your fault.
Always. The only way anyone gets a kill on me is if I screw up. Conversely: the only way I can kill someone else in this game is if they screw up. If everyone played this game perfectly it would suck badly and be zero fun and maximum frustration.
The players that I laugh at (not with) are the ones that say I am at fault if I do not let them kill me, or blame me if I kill them. These tend to be good gamers but very weak players....very weak.
The players I enjoy the most are the ones that say nothing, good or bad, win or lose. I like those folks. Thats how the game should be played. No talking to the opposing forces.