To be honest, I don't think that joining a squad would be a good idea. I find that when I'm flying with a squad I get sloppy and stop worrying about SA and such because I'm with the horde. When I fly solo I have to constantly be looking out for enemies and don't have anyone to back me up if I mess up. I can't just drag and bag all day when I'm flying solo. I agree that I need someone to help me out, but I've done my research and learn really quickly, and for someone to help me out would require a lot of time on their part. I'd need them to give me specific things that I do wrong like, "you need to drop flaps here," etc. I know when I do stupid things, mostly because I get bored of people running away all day so I'll enter a fight with a significant disadvantage. It's the little things that I don't know about and it's those little things that make all the difference in a rolling scissors fight.
It's way more fun for me to up in a mossie or 190 and just BnZ or HO than it is for me to beat my head into the wall constantly by trying to maneuver against people without knowing what I'm doing wrong. Like I said, I could spend months to years learning it myself, but I'm playing to have fun, and I can have fun right now by BnZ and HO.