I don't get it.
As a new player way back when in Airwarrior, I was still amazed at what the game was allowing me to do at two weeks. I certainly hadn't reached a point where I was already going to tell the maker of that game that he had it all wrong. We paid a lot more then 15 bucks a month for our flying time then too

Maybe just flying for a bit and enjoying what the game has to offer might be the way to go. See if an FSO squad has an opening on Fridays. Sign up for the next scenario. Fly a Snapshot. You'll get more of that 'war' you seem to be looking for.
Anytime I've seen you in the arena you seem to expect this, that or the other thing, and nothing works the way you want it to. Tonight was no different with the CAP whine. As I said, we had some really decent fights going on. It doesn't take 300 people to make that happen. To me that whine sounds like an old timer who has played too much and is looking for a way to grumble thinking it's the game and not himself that's the problem. Most of us have been there at one time or another, but not at two weeks of playing a new game. That's what makes me sometimes think you are a shade trying to get a rise out of folks. If the game is that miserable for you, I'd suggest finding another.