The point I was making was that I had made no complaint about how I died, he had his objective, I had mine, and they both involved shooting the other one down. On the other hand, his defeat immediately involved him pm'ing with objections, and frankly an outright fabrication as to how the fight ended. About the only message you'll get from me after shooting me down is a salute, unless of course you've really impressed me, and then I may send a compliment via pm.
My "Hero" question was to highlight the double standard, as I wonder what his reaction would be had I shot him down in the same manner as he had me.
I get HO'd, picked, collided with, vulched and ganged all the time, and I assure I don't like it any more than the next guy, but it is my choice to place myself in "virtual" harms way. When I get "beat", it's not what my opponent did that caused it, it's what I did wrong that caused it, and complaining to my opponent about it seems like a classless and clueless reaction. Instead, I film my sorties, study the film, and change what I do...
on the other hand, I guess I could just pm everyone that shoots me down and see if they'll change what they do...