Well, I think that the only way to solve all of this is for everyone to vote for the Beaufighter.
Those of you who want the Me 410 or Meteor, as you can easily verify in Yog-Sothoth's Illustrated Compendium of WWII Aircraft, the Beaufighter, the Me 410, and the Meteor are all essentially the same aircraft. According to Yog-Sothoth's, Meteor development started in 1938, but as the Whittle and de Havilland jet engines weren't ready in time, designers had to re-engine the prototype aircraft with conventional Taurus and Hercules engines (and, while they were at it, as it was rather a trivial amount of effort, changed the airframe, armament, landing gear, control systems, and crew layout). The re-engined aircraft proved worthy in its own right, so it was renamed "Beaufighter" and went into production separately while development of the Whittle and de Havilland jet engines continued. Meanwhile, German spies learned of the Meteor/Beaufighter development project and stole the plans. Germany used those as the basis for the Me 410 (which is why it looks almost exactly the same as a Beaufighter). Now it is true that the Meteor with its jet engines has a slightly different performance profile than the Beaufighter with its Bristol engines, but you will find that, upon loading the JAMP ("Jet Assisted Meteor Performance") pack available as a standard option for all Beaufighters after 1943, that the (once you shut down and feather the props) the Beaufighter has about the same performance as the Meteor.
So, as you can see, picking the Beaufighter satisfies all needs.