Golfer - if it was once, then ok maybe (MAYBE) it was bad luck. Twice is either criminal stupidity or sociopathic abberation.
Sorry, I have no sympathy whatsoever for repeat DUI offenders regardless of how "barely" over they may have been. In fact, actively hostile antipathy is about the calmest way to describe what I think about repeat DUI offenders.
Maybe too many of my friends lived through 3 wars only to be brutally killed by drunks, to consider drunk drivers to be anything but a threat to be eliminated. Surviving combat only to face such an everpresent hostile threat at home is a pretty common theme among my peers, and maybe the training kicks in just a bit. That might be the easiest way to explain why I feel more hostility towards drunk drivers than I do towards nearly all of the dirt poor and hopelessly uneducated foot soldiers we slaughtered by the thousands in 2 Iraq invasions. Most of those poor Iraqis didn't do anything wrong and just wanted to go home, stone cold sober. A drunk on his way home from *whatever* is a bigger threat to me, my family, and my friends, than that poor Iraqi foot soldier ever could have been, and the drunk put him/herself in that situation through their own voluntary choices.
I don't feel any compulsion to be nice about it, and being a jerk about it is both the least I can do and the most I *should* do, given my opinions and feelings on the subject.