Midway has come out of his skin in the last few months. I have found him to be a bit louder than in the past. Now, I have been playing very irregularly these days, so what may have been a gradual step up, for me has been a full on surprise.
What I find most interesting is how Midway is slowly morphing (sloooooowwwwlllyyy) into a pilot who seeks the good fight, regardless of the conditions, and does not devolve into the HO, kill the other guy at all costs, kind of stick that dominates this game. 100% of the time, this time last year, I would get HOd by Midway, and he would be proud of the fact I was in the tower. Shameless to say at the least, but if that is how some self actualize, eh who cares right? Now though, he really is becoming a student of the game. If only more guys would choose to walk that path.
On antagonizing guys, I don't like it. I like DB, but I gave him an earful on country for getting on hymi. No one should go out of their way to be critical of others not flying the way they think the game should be flown. You may find pages of me on the BBs arguing the opposite of the point, but in a new ear squeezing ooosa moment, I have just accepted it as what it is. Until the community at large starts policing itself on what most of us perceive to be rude or unfriendly, you will just have to accept it.
This of course starts from the top down. When the only rule is don't be a dick, well that is pretty broad. All AH netiquette is unofficial. Nothing is being done (as I know at least) to discourage some of the ungentlemanly practices. Spawn point are still mapped and fixed allowing dudes to sit in Panthers and land 50 kills, which in general kills a GV fight and then brings in the dreaded "bomb XXXXs". Field ack is still as weak as it was since the update (remember field ack 5 years ago!!

). CVs can still park close enough to the coast that their ada augments the numbers of the attacking force. CVs can still be pulled out of the game and hidden from others use (no reprisal for that). The list goes on....
William Golding was on point when he wrote the Lord of the Flies. When you take away rules and structure and you allow anonymity, the worst, not the best in people, flourishes. It is not until authority returns that so does normalcy.