then explain how I can see a con having no gun solution on me as I am avoiding and yet I end up in the tower dead. on my end I clearly can see that his guns werent even aiming in my direction. to me this is a contradiction of the explanation of the collision model but anyway this has been discussed to death. I understand why hitech coaded both things different but I dont really have to like it do I? 
semp
If he pulls the trigger on you, when he does have a gun solution according to his front end, then on your front end, regardless of where he is pointing, the rounds are going to come from his plane and hit yours.
It is the same issue with collisions. You first have to wrap your brain around the fact that EVERY computer playing the game, at any given time, has a slightly different representation of where everyone is in the game. Until you can get that, nothing anyone can say will make any sense.
The only contridiction exists for those who refuse to understand every computer has every person in a slightly different location in the Aces High world.
I think the worst representation of this, I have seen, was a film that showed a plane firing backwards from its location hitting the person rolling the film. There were some rants in that one. The person firing also sent his film in due to so many accusations of being a hacker/cheater. Turns out he was on a satellite connection where 2 to 3 seconds of latency are normal.