The short answer is that every aircraft has a Weight & Balance chart, and so long as things are loaded properly (and not overloaded), the aircraft will be within CG design limits. There will of course be performance differences for a heavier aircraft than a lighter one, but presumably WWII pilots (like modern day pilots) were trained on both "clean" and "heavy" aircraft.
As to fuel, I've never felt or perceived any effects on stability from it moving around in the wing tanks of a Cessna, whether fast, slow, stalls, spins, etc. So long as it stays within the CG limits (which it will, regardless of how much sloshing is going on, because it's confined to the fuel tanks), I don't see how it would make much difference.