Having one person decide who takes off or who can shoot guns is a big no-no. HTC has it setup in game now so that it is very difficult for any one player being able to dictate how any one else gets to play.
Also, have you ever been on a CV? I have, while mine is a nuclear carrier (CVN69) and was a big bigger than the WWII cvs they are still huge! Mine having newer technology still took over a mile and a half to stop when we had a man over board. Turning radius was around 2 mils as well. They are NOT like driving a sports car.
On top of that the controls they do have in game are mostly ignored anyway. A good cv driver won't be flying, but sitting on the bridge. Turning the cv at every instance of an incoming con. Most players can't even be found on the same side of the map as the CV now, why give them more controls that they won't use.