Welcome to Aces High.
This is definitely the right place to ask for help.
Lining up a shot asks a few questions. For instance, the distance to target, the flight path and speed of target and the lead you must give to land shots.
There is a handy training aid (can't remember the name) you can use offline and in the TA, which will place a green cross where you need to aim
for hits to be successful. Use it for a while, it will help, then turn it off. Try and think where the green cross would be. Repeat the on/off practice until you get a good idea of where you should aim. It takes awhile to get a "sight picture" but keep practicing.
Lines of attack also asks questions. In 1v1 it is important to create angles. Head on is 0 angle. Avoid this.
Try and create some separation before the merge, either horizontally or vertically...combine both if you can.
I try and think of how much room I need to turn and be on the 6 of the target. Head on gives me no room and worse, I am in the targets guns.
The room you need will depend on your speed and the speed/direction of the target. More questions arise because pulling G's in a turn will bleed energy, maybe so much so that you find that you can't keep pace with the target. There are ways to conserve energy in an attack. If co'alt/speed try and experiment with low and high yoyo's but be sure to have some separation first. Try and think in 3D
You will get shot down in thousands but don't let it get to you. Keep flying and asking, reading. Have fun!
Getting cons off your 6 is really to do with where you put your plane. Your SA will build over time and will tell you who's a threat and who's not.......yet! Get to know your plane, chuck it about all and everyway, dive till it compresses, practice recovery/pull out and then fly it slow and make it stall. Stalling and recovery are essential tools. Do not fly straight, use barrel rolls, scissors and snap roll to change direction.
Estimating your opponents energy is a key aspect of staying offensive. Learn about creating an overshoot for him and avoiding one yourself.
There are many more experienced and better players who will add to this I'm sure.
Have fun and happy hunting
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