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Offline hlbly

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Do you argue.........
« on: November 08, 2012, 11:11:42 PM »
To win or learn ? I remember when people debated/argued to learn, seems most folks want to win . I have only been involved in a few discussions with different points of view where I did not learn something ,at this bbs . Good example is here .

http://bbs.hitechcreations.com/smf/index.php/topic,338341.msg4506311.html#msg4506311

I had a misconception or two going in and I learned something from mountain man . Question is . Is this impression wrong ? Do people still debate to learn ? Or is it to win ?

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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #1 on: November 08, 2012, 11:28:14 PM »
You can tell a good debate when the opponents take the time to listen and form a proper response.


Every good debater plays to win though.


And Master Baters are great at stroking the audience.
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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #2 on: November 09, 2012, 12:13:04 AM »
You can tell a good debate when the opponents take the time to listen and form a proper response.


Every good debater plays to win though.


And Master Baters are great at stroking the audience.
Got to disagree .  My main point is to learn . My education is not very good . There are some excellent minds with great educations around here . I seldom if ever change any minds around here . I have changed mine on more than one occasion due to cogent arguments . One topic I was thinking about was my years long rant on force feedback . I did not change a single mind . It took another person with much better credentials to change minds . Even though we said the same thing .

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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #3 on: November 09, 2012, 12:59:17 AM »
I won't lie..any time I argue it's probably because I think the other person is wrong and therefor I want to win  :old:
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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #4 on: November 09, 2012, 01:01:11 AM »
I have changed mine on more than one occasion due to cogent arguments .


Your debate partner won.



Don't enter a debate with a weak stance. (Guilty)






A wise old lady once told me this... "Never dismiss anyone."
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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #5 on: November 09, 2012, 04:47:42 AM »
OMG, look what the cat dragged in  :banana:


One topic I was thinking about was my years long rant on force feedback . I did not change a single mind . It took another person with much better credentials to change minds . Even though we said the same thing .

Perhaps but you were still correct and the other party wrong. Them not conceding that has more to do with status and prestige and that is less admirable / honest than those who are prepared to be seen to be wrong in search of the truth.

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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #6 on: November 10, 2012, 02:36:57 AM »

Your debate partner won.



Don't enter a debate with a weak stance. (Guilty)






A wise old lady once told me this... "Never dismiss anyone."
I don't think either of us would look at it that way . Let's compare what he does on bbs with in game actions . A win at any cost guy will horde , pick , ho, etc . Does mntman do that ? I have never seen it . Does he belittle ,humiliate or make personal attacks here ? I have only seen him present well reasoned arguments . Last thing to consider , his being a trainer . To me that seems to indicate a teacher  .

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« Reply #7 on: November 10, 2012, 02:37:45 AM »
OMG, look what the cat dragged in  :banana:


Perhaps but you were still correct and the other party wrong. Them not conceding that has more to do with status and prestige and that is less admirable / honest than those who are prepared to be seen to be wrong in search of the truth.


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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #8 on: November 10, 2012, 02:56:59 AM »
Argument and Debate are two separate things.

While there may be some argument in a debate, there is seldom any debate in an argument.

Kind of funny how that works eh?

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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #9 on: November 10, 2012, 03:53:15 AM »
Would anyone like to have an argument with me?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQFKtI6gn9Y
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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #10 on: November 10, 2012, 06:10:28 AM »
How can you have a argument in cartoon land :old:

I have never lost a single argument on these forums and I never will and I am a idiot :rofl

Ask NRShida I am a complete idiot :old:

"Wikaidiot" is the basis of argument for the majority of people on these forums.

I am on Wikapedia, I have apparently written a book about Soul music, it even has a ISBN number. :) (I only found out when someone ask me for a copy of said book)

"Debate" grow-up  :rofl :rofl :rofl :rofl :rofl
 
Hibly smells by the way :rofl

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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #11 on: November 10, 2012, 10:17:45 AM »
Is this the five minute argument, or the full half hour?

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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #12 on: November 10, 2012, 11:10:07 AM »
How dare you how have you come this conclusion and what is your evidence :old:
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Offline Mar

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« Reply #13 on: November 10, 2012, 12:30:05 PM »
Is this the five minute argument, or the full half hour?

Both.
𝒻𝓇𝑜𝓂 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓈𝒽𝒶𝒹𝑜𝓌𝓈 𝑜𝒻 𝓌𝒶𝓇'𝓈 𝓅𝒶𝓈𝓉 𝒶 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑜𝓃 𝑜𝒻 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒶𝒾𝓇 𝓇𝒾𝓈𝑒𝓈 𝒻𝓇𝑜𝓂 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝑔𝓇𝒶𝓋𝑒

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Re: Do you argue.........
« Reply #14 on: November 10, 2012, 04:54:55 PM »
I didn't even know I was in contravention of military protocol but my post was deleted by a a serving officer in the US military. Which was funny because I never served in the US military  but he deleted the post because it might have contravened the rules in the Irish military which I left 18 years ago.

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