Without violating rule #14. I feel that all I can do is try to add some perspective.
Children killed by a crazed gunman illicit a very emotional type response, which leads to kneejerk reactions from all sides. I was shocked as everyone is, but once I stepped back and calmed my emotions, rational thought can then resume.
Here is just one rational thought (most others would violate posting rules)
Thousands of children (and tens of thousands of adults) are killed every year by drunk drivers. The odds are much, much higher you're child will be killed by a drunk driver then in a school shooting. Yet where is the national outcry to "do something"to save our children from drunk drivers, and regulate alcohol more strictly?
Drunk drivers is just one example. There are many events/people/diseases/accidents that have much greater odds of killing your child then a crazed gunman at school.
It's no solace to the victims of the latest tragedy I know, but is the loss felt by a parent who lost a child to an auto accident, or a terminal cancer, or anything else, any less bitter?