My name is Doom and I am the "Exsquadie" in the completely inappropriate re posts of PMz Between RTholmes and my self. Right, wrong, this should have been dealt with in house.
I will say I was in the wrong on several fronts this night. But not for the things this Esme claims. I was being loud and overly animated. In fact I believe two squadies left chan that night due to this. But not one said anything to me about cooling any conversation but this Esme. Palef did try to cool things when it was clear it was going over board to his credit. I was loud, probably a bit more than obnoxious. I fully admit that, and it was not the right thing to do. The ones in game that night I have talked to about it so far I have told that I was sorry for that. It was poor behavior plain and simple.
The worst thing in the whole of this situation is what I said to RT when he made me angry by his PM heading "Explain this" showing the link to this post without having talked to me. We are team members and friends, not real pilots. I feel he should have asked more like "What happened what's going on" since he's not my daddy and I'm not his. Not one to be talked to in that way, I over reacted.
I also have told him I was sorry, and I should be. It was way over the top and I do not blame him for doing the next step. In fact he took the high road and did not do what I surely would have. Sent an ugly response back.
This is what I said that was so offensive I got a tongue lashing from a new player I didn't know from adam.
"I came out side on Bayou St. John and saw a woman being attacked and stopped it. The girl had been chocked and put unconscious. The guy had jumped in at a stop sign and kidnapped her and had pulled across the bayou from me..."
That's it. Then I was rudely interrupted. and here we are...
I didn't agree it was offensive at all but would have stopped with out fuss if it had been asked polite.
That's not what happened.
To finish: There is more to it but I don't really feel like writing a book over something that should not have made this big a fuss.
If anyone would like to talk to me about it, easy enough. Just PM me in game.
Doom