Says who? you? If someone posts something like this in a public forum why wouldn't I feel like I could ask a question about it?
Yes, I am the one telling you.
There is a difference in asking a question, and asking for details.
You are asking someone who has just been insulted and offended to recount the intimate details for you. I think its safe to say EsmeII said everything she wanted to in her first post.
I'm not going take away from her by arguing with you. Certain things don't need to be asked here, and your question was one of them.
I invite you to argue with me via PM, and I will gladly accept, but if we both continue here, we will continue to take away from the real matter.