Thanks guys, but I'm not trying to make this about me or the problems I have had in the past. I have dealt, in most part, with some of the things. I can handle the razzing and teasing which is in good fun, but being mean is another thing, and like I said, I've only had a few occasions that this has happened.
My point was that she should not have to become a totally different person and pretend to be one of the guys, just to enjoy herself playing the game. I do agree that we have to take everything that is said with a grain of salt and laugh it off, but some things that are said aren't that easy to look past. I believe that you have to have balls of steel to be playing this game as a woman and give credit to everyone of them that does it. I don't want her to have to change that OR quit.
Oh...and thanks for saying that I am nice..
I try really hard not to type what I'm thinking most of the time..
...and find that listening to Volbeats-Still Counting makes me feel better if I get a little irritated...