Imo it is bad leadership for a CO to let non squaddies push the CO around for the actions of a squaddie over petty back and forth ramblings. What goes on in their squad is nobody elses business when squad rules, or game rules have been broken or not. That is up to the CO of the squad and game moderators. People are too damn sensitive if they let words in a text buffer get sand in their vag to the point of them interfering with somebody's squad, no matter what they say. It reminds me of a George Carlin rant: "The glorification of American".
If a group of people really enjoy flying together and having fun, they should stick up for each other no matter what. Even if lessons need to be learned about controlling ones self under frustration. Nobodys perfect, but despite differences, most of us are decent people. And I admit, Ive expressed my frustration before when I shoulda just shrugged it off. If you have a problem with somebody, hash it out with them directly, or ignore them. Don't go crying to their CO to stir up drama. That just adds to the immaturity in my opinion.
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This public service announcement is a general statement and is not directed towards any specific squad or person.