Judging others do not define them, it defines you. I can not answer for how you choose to interpret what I write, for after all it can and will be interpreted differently than what I intend according to who is reading. Unless I had the time to write a book to eliminate mis-interpretation, I did not have that luxury.
Any person with negative / hostile intentions can and will read your post mis-interpreting it. Which is why being nice is that much more important on a bbs, to get along, or people will jump you much like you do. Maybe I am getting old but I did not have the patience to be nice nor do I care for people who are clueless.
Why do you need to write a book to ask about the reconnection rules? Ooo... I know! You had already made up your mind that this was some sort of Killuminati conspiracy to keep your squad down. You wanted to rant and rave, so you did. The only thing your OP was missing was a youtube video of you marching circles of protest in your kitchen.
The only negative opinion I have of you is this thread. Before now, I had never even heard of you. You don't have to fake being nice to anyone here. All you have to do is not type like you're about to light yourself on fire. Please don't blame this on you being 'old', either. Plenty of old people know how to type concise questions without going off the deep end. Plenty of old people have the patience to type a paragraph describing an internet disconnection without demanding answers immediately.
The only one acting clueless about this is you.
P.S. - In the 5 minutes it took me to write this (thank God for patience), there were several things I almost typed out but omitted. If I can do it, you can too.