I finished college while back with $42,900 debt, I bought a house and car within my budget and my small business seems to be doing alright. However my wife's cancer took a shot in my arm, $76,000 medical bills and that's just the hospital stay bill. I think its additional $13,000 for medication, without even going into the cancer stuff yet.
I imagine I'm sitting around $495,000 debt in which I am paying each bill $20-50 at a time (which is literally at my budgets limit right now).
I gave my truck back to the dealership, they were kind enough to let me give back the truck without any hassle.
Funny how the Debt collectors don't call, but all the ones wanting to help me do (and flood me no less). The hospital has been nice however and let me pay whatever I can without even saying a word, they did pick up a $92,000 cancer bill (charity I guess) - and found a quark in my finances that allow my wife to have medical insurance.
Half a million isn't to bad, I figure when my wife can work again she can probably devote most of her pay to it, and we can still live comfortable, however I still haven't gotten all the bills yet, I suspect another $125,000 in bills.
I used to cry and moan at paying $200 a month on my college loan, my house payment wasn't bad its only $1200 a month, taxes are $2600 a year.
I can't really sink or swim at this point only pay what I can and pray to god my health doesn't slip because life will really suck at that point.