You got something mixed there Boz.
"Emissions from your plane announce your presence, but measuring your exact location and speed for the purpose of guided armament is not easy. Normally it takes triangulation from several displaced receivers to do it and it is still not very fast or accurate."
You emitting radar radiation is no different from a system that lights you with radiation (except that your emission has more power) and a missile homing on you e.g. beam-rider missiles. Also SHRIKE and HARM were meant to do just that, home on radar emission. I guess the new AARGM is still more powerful in homing. The problem with employing this kind of missiles is always the same: what if the enemy shuts down his radar? Homing on a ground based cold radar is easy using INS/GPS if you get the initial reading but in the air it is impossible, but the fact remains, if you have your radar on you can be tracked and the accuracy depends on the antenna system on the receiving end.
"If you want to hide your presence, the plane has to fly in complete electronic silence. This means no radio, no radar, no active ECM, no data-links."
You could also rank them while your at it.
1. Radar (Hey here I am!)

(Power is in kilowatts)
2. ECM (Hey, I'm somewhere in this direction!)

(Power is in kilowatts)
3. Datalink (
https://www.rockwellcollins.com/sitecore/content/Data/Products/Communications_and_Networks/Data_Links/Joint_Tactical_Information_Distribution_System.aspx) (MIDS has the same power rating, 200W)
4. Radio (Hey, Im around!)

(Power is probably a couple of hundred watts)
Datalink and radio are probably not much different except that with radio you can choose when to reply (and emit power). Datalink is mainly on one direction but I suppose the system sends some data back to announce it has received data. Thus the radiation is not entirely dependent of the pilot in the fighter. But the operating mode of radio and datalink makes them very hard to track. If you know the frequencies you can tell that something is going on but where and what is more difficult to figure out.
-C+